Nancy Etcoff, a clinical instructor in psychology at Harvard Medical School, the director of the Program in Aesthetics and Well Being at Massachusetts General Hospital, and the author of the book Survival of the Prettiest: The Science of Beauty, says the image we project can influence our destiny.
“Tons of research shows there are a lot of advantages for people who are considered beautiful or attractive, everywhere from the boardroom to the bedroom,” Dr. Etcoff says.
A UCLA study from 2009 shows that obese people have 8 percent less brain tissue than average-weight individuals and that their brains look 16 years older than the brains of lean individuals.
Women are turning to liposuction to give them an edge? The Journal of Applied Pyschology published a study which shows that lean women tend to have fatter paychecks than average or overweight women.
Back in October of 2010, the Wall Street Journal wrote that in looking at the differences of salaries between men and women of different body sizes, the study’s author discovered substantial gaps. Women who weighed 25 pounds less than average-sized women in the sampling earned an average of $15,572 more. On the other hand, a woman who weighed 25 pounds more than normal-sized women made $13,847 less than their average counterparts.
Overweight employees are assumed to lack self-discipline, be lazy, less conscientious, less competent, sloppy, disagreeable, and emotionally unstable. Obese employees are also believed to think slower, have poorer attendance records, and be poor role models. (Puhl et al., 2001)
Have you ever thought about if your career was helped or hurt by your weight?
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That’s the reason why it is so crucial to be fully assessed from head to toe by a surgical artist with a good eye and ability to determine where you are out of proportion, if at all. It is a mistake to liposuct anyone who is simply overweight or flabby but not disproportionate. Unfortunately this is a common occurance and the result will be an out of proportion patient. This is why you sometimes hear stories of someone who has had lipo and the fat “moved” to other area.
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Copper is one metal that has influenced human life in many ways. Copper is being used in almost each and every phase of life in one or the other way ranging from copper tubing in cables to some of the finest cookware available in the market. Interior decorators and homeowners are now considering metals such as copper and brass as a symbol of quality, durability, comfort, elegance and beauty. Another recent utility of copper has been in the manufacturing of copper sinks. One major reason due to which sinks made of copper are increasing gaining popularity during recent times is that these sinks are do not require any major care and maintenance.
The best maintenance for copper sinks is to clean them periodically using a mild detergent and water. One should remember that hard water can corrode the copper metal. In case the water is hard, it is always better to keep the copper sink clean and dry. Another important point of concern with a copper sink is that copper tends to change color with time. Simultaneously, patina forms over the copper as the time proceeds. However, one can delay the patina process by applying wax coating on the sink periodically. Protecting the surface using wax helps the metal in retaining its shine and luster and also aids in better water run-off.
Last fall I went to visit my mother in Arizona. It was October, but the weather still favored those of us who like early morning coffees on outdoor patios. Mom has two hummingbird feeders on the patio, and to my delight, last year the speedy “mini’s” found their way to her home.
I confess, I sat on that patio for hours every day watching the doves, and especially the hummingbirds. They were my teachers.
As fast as a Ferrari may be, we humans have not yet captured the fierce mobility and speed of the hummingbird. Did you know that they flap their wings an average of 53 flaps per second? Their little hearts can beat up to 1260 beats per minute. Scientists believe they live 4-5 years, but have found some alive after 12 years.
They seemed to be nervous little creatures. They moved so quickly, so consistently, that even while they ate, they often kept on flapping! .
I found myself feeling irritated with my fast and furious friends. Why couldn’t they slow down? Why did them seem so suspicious of anything and everyone? Why didn’t they relax long enough to eat?
As the days went by and I allowed myself to relax, I noticed it was my own behavior that irritated me the most. Why did I have to be in such a flurry all the time? What made me think that a few moments to sit down and share a meal with others or myself would break the bank? Why must my life move at such a breakneck speed that people could hear the “hum” of my engines when I entered the room?
Several months have passed, and I am still thinking of my feathered teachers. In their own habitat what they do, and how they live, makes sense. But for me, I need to slow down. Life is too fleeting, to magical, to illusive to spend every day hurrying to my next activity.
Be aware of your own teachers - they are appointed as personal tutors. They appear in unusual clothing and often annoy us. You may find yourself angry with them, broken-hearted by them, pushed, or punished by them. They can accuse you, abuse you, or desert you. Sometimes they are your best friends, lovers, or “over-the-backyard-fence” neighbors. You can be either inspired or infuriated in their presence. Rarely will they announce they are your teacher, nor are they often “paid” what they deserve.
Sometimes, if you are lucky, they visit you in the park, the pond, the nest, the zoo, the forest, the sky, or the water.
You never know when to expect them, but they are easy to spot. When you sense yourself reacting to a situation or a person, either kindly or with agitation, there is your clue: you are back in class. If you are lucky like me, your teachers may hibernate or travel south for the winter. Do you think there might be a SAT test we could take and be done with it already?
My best advice; make peace with your teachers. Raise your hand before you speak, do the assignments, accept the corrections. And don’t forget the power of the apple!
Copyright 2006 Harmony Thiessen
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The term agoraphobia is generally misunderstood and mistreated. Its literal definition suggests a fear of ‘open spaces.’ This is not only incomplete, but a misleading view. Agoraphobics are not necessarily afraid of open spaces. Instead, they are afraid of having panicky feelings, wherever these fearful feelings may occurat home, in public buildings, or in crowded supermarkets, driving a car or driving over bridges or places that are certainly not ‘open,’ but are unfamiliar or triggers feelings of being ‘out of control.’
The majority of sufferers are women and the onset is usually early in adult life. Depressive and obsession symptoms and social phobias may also be present but do not dominate the emotional picture. In the absence of effective treatment, agoraphobia often becomes chronic, though usually fluctuating. In my experience working with agoraphobics three traumatic experiences were prevalentverbal (emotional) abuse, physical (hitting/spanking) and/or sexual abuse/incest.
In these three scenarios the person has been ‘overwhelmed’ and ‘out of control’ of their environment by the verbal, physical or sexual abuse perpetrator’s behavior. Because these traumas are usually perpetrated by the parent, or someone the child knows and trusts implicitly the child’s reaction is one of betrayal, fear of reprisal if they tell and fear for their very life.
Along with being hit/spanked the parent declares, “I hit you for your own good. This hurts me worse than it hurts you. If you were good I wouldn’t have to hit you,’ or many other variations of this theme, which serves to blame and shame the child and disavow any responsibility of the adult.
The confusing message a sexual abuse/incest survivor endures is even more insidious, because it is implied that the child is special. The perpetrator doesn’t say, “Come here and I will abuse you,” but, “Come here because you are special (my daughter), I love you and I want to show affection;” thus she is deceived, and the affection she expected was in fact abuse. Not only has she been duped and betrayed, she is ‘out of control’ with regard to what she experiences. Thus, she goes into shock and then struggles mightily to come to gripes with her experience and feelings. No sooner has she regained her equilibrium (which may take days or weeks) she experiences the abuse again, and thus she is ‘out of control’ again. This roller coaster existence becomes a way of life for her. At some point she will vow to: “Never allow herself to be vulnerable, out of control or duped.” Thus, anything which triggers the feelings of vulnerability, being out or control or duped catapults the survivor back into the shock and struggle to come to gripes with her experience and feelings.
Traditional talk therapy/psychotherapy treats symptoms because symptoms can be quantified and identified, or so it is claimed by traditional modern medical and psychiatric practices. Thus Emotional Pain is described in terms of symptoms Agoraphobia, Depression, Anger, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Self-Esteem issues, Mood Swings, Compulsive Behavior, Chronic and Acute Fear, Self-Injury, Suicidal Thoughts, Shame, Guilt, Eating Disorders, or Addictions) does not heal itself. Time, marriages, children, success, wealth, buying a bigger house, or faster car, changing jobs or relocating will not CURE it. The damage is sometimes very deep, pervasive and profound. It is a soul injury. The person has been robbed of his or her integrity, core identity and trust.
The legacy of every unhealed verbal, physical or sexual abuse survivor includes diminished self-worth, limited ability to trust, and the burden of a shameful secret she or he cannot express. This legacy leaves the survivor’s ability to develop necessary life skills inhibited. She remains co-dependent on her caretakersher nuclear or extended family, foster parents or her surrogate family, babysitter, doctor or priestwho have frequently become another abuser. In her diminished self-worth, limited ability to trust and the burden of a shameful secret she becomes anxious as to how she will continue managing the rigors of life. Thus, she needs some way to cope with these burdens and anxiety arises. A person may fear having anxiety attacks, ‘losing control’, or embarrassing him/herself in such situations. Many people remain in a painful state of anxious anticipation because of these fears. Some become restricted or ‘housebound’ while others function ‘normally’ but with great difficulty, working gallantly to hide their discomfort.
Agoraphobia arises from an internal anxiety process that has become so intense that the suffering individual fears going anywhere or doing anything where these feelings of panic or feeling ‘out of control’ have repeatedly occurred before. Once the panic attacks have started, these episodes become the ongoing stress, even when other more obvious pressures have diminished. This sets up a “feedback condition” which generally leads to increased numbers of panic attacks and, for some people, an increase in the situations or events which can produce panicky feelings. Others experience fearful feelings continuously, more a feeling of overall discomfort, rather than panic. Agoraphobia is both a severe anxiety reaction and a phobia reaction, as well as a pattern of avoidant behavior.
The good news is: Emotional, physical and sexual abuse can be healed. Healing takes place when the core issue is addressed. Treating depression, anxiety, panic, or agoraphobia is treating symptoms. Treating symptoms does not heal the internal wounds which the trauma created or change the behaviors the survivor has chosen to cope with the pain, avoid the pain or numb the pain. Using a variety of healing techniques the core wound can be healed, thus the verbal (emotional), physical and sexual abuse becomes a distant memory and the painful aftereffects no longer existi.e. the agoraphobia (panic, anxiety, feeling out of control, etc) is no longer needed as a coping mechanism.
Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, author, If I’d Only Known… Sexual Abuse in or out of the Family: A Guide to Prevention. specializes in verbal, sexual abuse/incest and physical abuse prevention and recovery. http://www.gen-assist.com/book.asp
Direct Answers - Column for the week of December 6, 2004
Someone gave me a bit of advice, and I’m doing my best to get my head wrapped around it, trying to understand and comprehend and translate it into my own life. What does it mean to “follow your own heart”?
Lisa
Lisa, Dante’s “Divine Comedy” opens with the author saying, “Midway in the journey of our life, I found myself in a dark wood, for the straightforward path had been lost.” That is how many people feel. It is as if they are searching for an answer when they don’t know the question.
In your quiet moments, with no concern for anyone but yourself, what are your dreams? Your desires? What are your hobbies? Your interests? What did you like to do when you were young? If someone gave you a lot of money, what would you do? Often what you would do doesn’t take money, but if you had money, you would feel the freedom–the unburdening–to do it.
Most of us have a talent for complicating the obvious. The amoeba, a one cell organism, has a lesson for us all. It moves toward and embraces what it authentically needs, and it moves away from the uncongenial. That is all we need to do in life, and it applies to everything–people, jobs, leisure activities, and studies.
This method is extremely simple. It is so simple people don’t realize how powerful it is. In the course of time, it can create the kind of life we want. Is it sometimes wasteful? Yes, sometimes we follow false trails. Will we sometimes feel our life is stalled? Yes, but at a deeper level we are moving forward.
People who follow this simple technique, in time, feel as if their lives were guided by an unseen hand. They gain a sense of destiny. What once seemed like random events, they know occurred for a purpose. They end up living a life which fulfills them.
Wayne & Tamara
I Love Lucy
My mother is making dinner for the holidays, and she invited my mother-in-law who is undergoing chemotherapy. My mother-in-law is very upbeat about her condition, but she constantly talks about the details of her illness.
The problem is this. My dad died from cancer 10 years ago. He and mother were very private about his illness and never brought it up with company unless someone asked. Mother was devastated by his death and has a hard time listening to other people’s cancer stories.
My mother told me she is going to call my mother-in-law and tell her a guest, who will be at the dinner, had cancer before and does not want to talk about cancer or have it discussed. That isn’t true, but mom said the guest will play along.
I feel uncomfortable with this. I told my mother, but she said it’s her dinner and she is going to do it. I always treat my mother-in-law as a second mother, but my mother and my mother-in-law have a standoffish relationship. Since my mother is making an issue of this, it seems to be my problem, or is it?
Jennifer
Jennifer, a sonnet by Edna St. Vincent Millay contains the lines, “There are a hundred places where I fear to go,–so with his memory they brim.” That is where your mother is. But your mother-in-law is, as another poet said, raging against the dying of the light.
Your mother’s scheme reminds us of the sitcom “I Love Lucy.” Each episode involved a ruse, and when the ruse was discovered, all was forgiven. In real life subterfuges blow up and cause bad feelings. The guest’s “cancer” may be all your mother-in-law needs to helpfully suggest support groups, books, and treatments.
The real problem is two mothers who don’t get along. Go to the dinner, but don’t be a party to this ruse.
Have you ever noticed that when things in your life are starting to go well; starting to come together, along comes someone who wants to bring you down?
It could be a friend; it could be a close relative! It could be a total stranger. But those die-hard “losers,” the ones who want to wallow in their own misery - they get really bent out of shape when they see you happy and doing well.
Those sad and sorry types will try to bring you down to their level of gloom. Don’t let it happen.
Don’t bother getting angry. Don’t bother trying to educate them, either, because they aren’t ready to listen to you. They’ll have to figure that out on their own when they realize that the blame and gloom game does not get them anywhere good.
When things are going well for you, you just keep on smiling. Stay sweet, stay the course, and don’t let the whiners, the hostile, and the just plain nutcases get you down. Believe me, they will try their best.
In my faith, we call that the attack of the Enemy. And that’s exactly what it is. There are lots of people out there who would rather you did not succeed.
Yes, they’ll pooh-pooh your dreams; they’ll tell you it’s not going to work - whatever you’re trying, they’ve already done it, and it didn’t work.
Yeah, yeah. Just get away from those people and get back to your dreams muy pronto. You’ll be really glad you did. Next year at this time, your life will be that much richer, and theirs will still be the same if not worse. And don’t spend your energy trying to save their sinking ship, because you are not at the helm of that ship - they are.
Be joyous - it’s a beautiful world out there full of wonder. Yes, life is full of problems. And??
We can handle them and keep going. Frankly, that is 90 percent of life - that you just keep going. You don’t kill yourself. You don’t give up. You get through the worst of times. You just… keep going. We ALL have issues and we all have problems - but we can still be joyful and thankful for the good!
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In Catholic school the nuns used to tell us that we should love everyone as we loved Jesus. We
didn’t have to like them but we had to love them. I used to argue this and my trump card was always
Hitler. How could I love him and, by the way, why would I want to be a part of any religion which said I
had to?
Time happened and I fell for Zen Buddhism. So much of it made sense to me except —there it was
again. I had to love everyone - even Hitler. This time I got it in my head. After all we were all the
same consciousness so to hate someone else was to hate myself. But my heart never signed off on it.
For one thing there was still no explanation as to why such evil and suffering had to exist in the
world. What was Reality’s Purpose in inflicting Hitler on the rest of us?
Then one day I was listening to Dr. Wayne Dyer. He’s one of my favorite speakers. He has a way of
revealing things which I’ve always known but wasn’t aware of knowing. He was speaking about the Power
of Intention. Specifically he was speaking about love and kindness. How studies have shown that a
bystander simply viewing an act of kindness will experience a rise in their seratonin level.
He told a story about a guy whose son was developmentally disabled and isolated from other
children but who wanted desperately to be accepted. One day the father and his son, Shaya,
were walking past a neighborhood baseball game and Shaya ran up and asked if he could play. His father’s
heart sank. He knew the kids wouldn’t allow such a gawky, uncoordinated kid to play with them. To his
amazement one side let him play. Although he could barely hold the bat they put him in when they were
three runs down, bases loaded, bottom of the ninth. The other side quickly caught on and the pitcher
stepped in a few steps and lobbed a gentle ball to Shaya. He managed to hit it a few feet and he
began running to first base. He could have been caught out within seconds but now both teams were
cooperating in helping him win. They wanted him to be the hero and win the game for his team - knowing
he might never have such an opportunity again. So the pitcher and the outfielders threw the ball clumsily
back and forth while Shaya trotted from base to base and finally home.
In that moment, his father says, every one of those 18 children on both teams realized God’s (or Spirit or
Universal Consciousness if you prefer) perfection.
His father came to believe that when God brings a child like this into the world the perfection that
he/she seeks is in the way people react to the child.
If everyone is part of God’s perfection then everyone has a divine Purpose. And perhaps that divine
Purpose is to give others of us the opportunity to treat them with compassionate action, kindness and
love.
Perhaps, said Dyer, there is a cosmic sign-up sheet where Consciousness signs up to live a troubled or
painful, or even evil mortal life to present to us all the opportunity to respond with the best parts of
ourselves.
This made more sense to me. I saw that each person when confronted with Hitler’s gradual military build-up
and grab for power all the way from Kristallnacht, through Theriesenstadt and ultimately ending in the
Holocaust had a choice to walk away or stand firm against him. Indeed, there were thousands of
resistance fighters and ordinary people who aided and hid Jews in their homes for years at risk of their
lives. They had the choice of realizing God’s perfection or not.
I was thinking about this recently as I was watching the horrible images from the Tsunami - now
considered the worst natural disaster in modern history. I read the story of the father who struggled
to hold on to his three year old only to have the child ripped from his grasp and watch his terrified little
face disappear under a wall of water; the 15 year old who lost every member of his family and was
standing on a street corner begging for food. What was the Purpose in this devastating tragedy?
I realized, then, what an amazing opportunity had been given to us to realize God’s perfection in our
compassionate and loving response to the victims - living and dead. I honor them for going through such
agony in this lifetime and I’m grateful for the opportunity to be able to respond in a way which
expresses my Purpose.
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The Katha-Upanishad refers to material manifestation as:
“A tree standing on the ground of material nature, bearing two types of fruit: sweet and sour, symbolic of happiness and distress. Its roots go in three direction represented by goodness, passion and ignorance. The first bird is the localized aspect of the Supreme One, referred to as Pramtm the divine spirit, the Entity who needs neither food nor drink. The other bird representing the mortal, has to select his food from the offerings of the tree: a choice between distress and happiness. Sometimes he eats the fruits of happiness and sometimes the fruit of distress. Having eaten the fruit, he expands along the three directions of the roots, the modes of material existence, namely, goodness, passion and ignorance.”
This individual growth is what makes two mortals dissimilar. Growth is strongly connected with past karma and guidance upbringing. The realities of life have different meanings for each individual. Why does a stable and rewarding professional relationship become distant? Why does the accommodating boss turn into a difficult task master? Why does the team lose spirit for no apparent reason?
There is no end to such questions, but all the answers can be found if the map of growth can be analyzed. Unfortunately, this is an impossible task for mortals. However, this growth can be monitored by our own efforts and choices and Astrology can be the guide that shows us our very basic instinctive tendencies. Planets and their positions give our respective Ascendants and Moon signs, along with other planetary positions. This doctrine can be a very useful friend philosopher and guide, provided we are open to accept what it shows, provided we are ready to go beyond the predictive elements.
The most important aspect of Astrology is that it shows you the mirror image of your Karmic journey. What one has to understand is that there is no black and white, no good or bad in a horoscope. Each horoscope has good AND bad, each horoscope is misaligned somewhere, which is why the person is born.
The significance of the 10th house takes us to the realm of career and status in life. It displays fundamental possibilities. The 10th is a Kendra and as such, any planet located here will be prominent, powerful, and influential all through life. As this is an upachaya house (attributes that grow with time and effort), any possibility indicated by an occupying planet will grow in strength as life progresses. This in effect also gives great strength in overcoming all kinds of obstacles.
The house indicates our ambition, status, profession, father, fame, recognition, foreign travels or affairs, political power, authority and many others. But very importantly, it signifies our determination, self-reliance and patience. The 10th house reveals holy pilgrimages, as well as good and charitable deeds, compassion, etc. Father’s reputation is also signified by this house.
A strong 10th house will give the person a position of power in career and fame.
Different planets may fare in a very unique manner in this house, irrespective of their lordship. Let us see how they fare and how it affects our career or 10 th house significations in general.
I will start with the Sun, as it is the most important of all planets.
The Sun is a great planet, but it is a natural malefic. All malefics thrive in an ‘upachaya’ house so by the virtue of this tendency, Sun does well when located in the 10th house. Sun in the 10th house is an excellent placement for career and the person may get success in all undertakings. The Sun is the significator of the 10th and hence gets dik bala, or directional strength, when located here.
Astrologers often conclude that it is its best position in the horoscope. The person is career-minded and easily rises to a position of authority in his chosen profession. Fame and popularity are associated with this signature and these yield great power. As Sun aspects the 4th house, there may be difficulties in relationship with the mother due to this, but wealth is favored and a beneficial relationship with the father, who may be wealthy and prosperous, is also indicated.
Moon is a neutral planet but it is a benefic planet as well. Its location and aspect produce calming and soothing effect always. When Moon is located in the 10th house, career matters are highly enhanced. If the waxing Moon is in the 10th house, the person is very fortunate as the significations of both the Moon and the 10th house flourish. The person is sure to enjoy fame and success from a very young age. Associations with the mother and females are greatly favored. When Moon is thus posited in a man’s horoscope, married life is smooth and enjoyable. Wherever the Moon is placed in a horoscope, it becomes an area of great interest and vitality. So the Moon’s location in the 10th house induces the person to love his/ her profession and to be sincere and diligent in efforts. The aspect of a bright Moon on the 4th house brightens the entire horoscope. Education, mother, happiness, fixed assets, and conveyances are all favored. The person is kind and warmhearted.
Mars is natural malefic like the Sun and Saturn. The 10th house is one of the few houses that utilize this fiery energy of Mars to good effect. Mars gets dik bala or directional strength in the 10 th , often making this its best placement in the horoscope. The person is efficient and enjoys success and achievement all through life. The person is highly ambitious and may wish to be a ruler of some sort. Mars’ aspect on the 4th house may indicate ups and downs in relationship with mother and some amount of unrest in the domestic scenario. But overall, this is a fine location for Mars and makes the person ‘a go getter’ in his/ her profession.
Mercury is a natural benefic and if Mercury is in the 10th house, the person has a successful career and a good reputation. The person has the capacity to earn plenty of wealth. It is necessary to consider the aspects to Mercury - alone and un-aspected in the 10 th . If this is true, it can indicate great intellect and involvement in a career connected with communications. Mercury rules commerce and trade, so this placement can mean a very successful person in business. Mercury’s aspect on the 4th house indicates a fine education and happiness at home. The person also enjoys fine conveyances and all kinds of comforts and luxuries; a good relationship with mother and benefits from her are well indicated as well.
When Jupiter is in the 10th house, the person will enjoy a successful career and will know his purpose right from a very young age. His or her professional activities will succeed almost immediately, and there will be honor and fame. The person may also choose a career, which greatly benefits the public. He or she will especially be attracted to work involving higher knowledge.
Jupiter’s aspect on the 4th house makes the person happy and content, gain of wealth is easy while fine conveyances and all kinds of comforts and luxuries are sure factors. Relationships with his mother benefits from her are well indicated. Gain from government or authority figures are also a strong possibility.
Jupiter is known as the great benefic and even when it is the lord of inauspicious houses, its location and aspect produce some good somewhere; just as there is some unfavorable hidden in Saturn’s blessings.
Venus is a natural benefic and like the Moon, it has its wonderful attributes. Its energy is beautiful and its placement in the 10th house makes the person bring joy and happiness to the public and all his or her associates.
This is one of the most common placements of successful actors, artists, musicians, and performers. It is also found in the horoscopes of people who make their living selling jewelry, photography, cosmetics, sweets, arts and crafts, fine cars, and other such luxuries. The person enjoys great popularity and has a natural flair for making wealth. The person is lucky in life and makes many lucky contacts with people through his/ her profession. The person is happy and content, as Venus is powerful and prominent in this Kendra, throwing its benefic aspect onto the 4th house. The person gains great wealth and enjoys fine cars and conveyances. Happy relationship with mother as well as benefits from women is highly indicated by this placement.
Saturn is a natural malefic and is greatly feared by most. When Saturn is in the 10th house, the person normally possesses great ambition, leadership ability and power. However, Saturn in any kendra gives major ups and downs in life and therefore, career successes may fluctuate. The benefits of this malefic’s location in the 10th house has its benefits too, though. Saturn in the 10th gives the tendency of leadership and a highly disciplined approach to one’s profession. However, the rest of the horoscope should be analyzed to confirm whether a leadership position is likely or not. Otherwise, the person’s work may be connected with construction, mining, or any career involving manual labor, like steel, iron, coal, etc. Saturn’s aspect on the 4th house is not good and may affect relationships with mother and also cause domestic unrest.
Rahu is a malefic but the 10th house is one of the finest placements for Rahu. The person is likely to have a powerful and renowned career. Career will flourish most if the person is connected with the masses. Influencing the masses or selling to the public is the key note of this location. As Rahu essentially generates ambition, the person may live with insatiable career ambitions, changing career many times. If other signatures of the horoscope are harmonious, the person’s work and effort greatly benefit society. The person will easily reach a position of authority. Money power comes early in life and may help support parents. Ancient Hindu scriptures declare that the person will prefer the company of persons of a different religious background. Association with unconventional and low class people - especially women, are one of the pit falls of this signature.
Ketu is also a malefic and is a profound energy of the unknown. Because malefics in upachaya houses produce good results, Ketu in the 10th gives excellent career success. But generally career is out of the ordinary. The sign placement is also very important as Ketu may cause problems if it is in an inimical sign (i.e., a sign ruled by one of the luminaries or a sign which is unfriendly. In such a case, the person could experience strange difficulties in career. The most common of the troubles caused by Ketu is enmity from unknown and behind-the-scene activities against the person in terms of his/ her career. This can become very troublesome in the career path as well as the person’s general success and happiness.
When considering matters related to the 10th house, one must never forget that success relates to the status the person is born with. A very good 10th house in a pauper’s horoscope may not mean that he/ she will attain royal status - it indicates a status that is better than that of a pauper. But with malefic or Martian attributes, the person may even turn dictator and overthrow the government.
There are some subtle significances that must also be understood before any conclusive significance to this house can be attached . The religious philosophy of a man is dharma and dharma without any significance or connection to karma is empty. It brings the focus to the core, which is good or evil. The 9th house essentially signifies the religious philosophy of the mortal that sustains through the terrestrial journey. The 10th house astrologically suggests the fruition of the 9th house. Dharma must set a certain Karma without which it would be an empty profession, devoid of any significance. It is for this reason that we find planet connections between the 9th, 10th or Ascendant. The 9th and 10th create Raj jog. They are connections that can turn a pauper into a king or a skeptic into a great guru.
When we consider the career aspect, it is not only just one or two houses that can be analyzed for a perfect picture. Career is connected with finance, vocation and ultimately, gains and self- satisfaction. If we just consider the 10th house for career, or the 6th house for service, or the 11th house for gains, or the 2nd house for conserved wealth, the analysis will remain half-hearted and incomplete. All the four have to be considered together and analyzed for just how well they are adjusted with each other’s planetary energies. Then alone will the true essence emerge!
Madhushri completed her early schooling at the Shri Aurobindo Ashram at Pondicherry. Having grown up in an environment of literature, music and spirituality she proceeded to complete her Masters in Comparative Literature from the Jadavpur University after completing graduation studies in the same course of the University. In addition, Madhushri also hold a Masters degree in Music from the Rabindra Bharati University.
Given her deep interests in mythology, literature and spirituality, the move to Vedic Astrology was a natural extension. Being an intuitive reader of Natal Chart, she brings a successful blend of astrology and spiritual skill-sets into all her readings and counseling’s. A natural flair for expressing complex and difficult matters makes her a prolific creator of most of the content on CyberAstro website since 2001. Madhushri has a large following for the accuracy of her daily, weekly and monthly zodiac predictions.
